ABDL Toddler Time

Ready for some ABDL Toddler Time?!

It is the perfect play for my little abbies. This is for my slightly ‘older’ adult babies and sissy babies.

Do you know what ABDL Toddler Time is?

It is a special time for your abdl mommy and her darling little abdl where you get to be treated and act like the adult toddler that you are. This can be a fun time OR this can be a time of punishment.

I personally like to schedule adult toddler time. Finding a time during the day to send you different tasks for an extended period of time, or even engage with you, I guess you could look at it as a sort of home schooling for abdl trainees.

As the ABDL Toddler you have to put on your pamper during this time and then get to watch a certain cartoon on tv or play with cheerios for your counting – you could be dancing or learning a new song that your ABDL Mommy will teach you. It could be building towers of blocks or some other fun little game. It could just be going to the park and having some play time.

I would definitely consider the fun side of ABDL Toddler Time, a more sensually dominant approach. It is playful and fun…so long as you, the Little One, is doing what you have been asked to do. Some tasks aren’t always THAT fun but it is clearly in your best interest to complete them so you can continue on with the fun side.

If you don’t…

ABDL Toddler time could be Punishment

It could be degrading diaper punishment or humiliating abdl punishment. If you are going to act like a whiny toddler you are going to be punished accordingly. Time outs, early bed time, extended forced diaper wearing, over the knee spankings or other disciplines, having to puree your food or only eat baby food and drink out of a sippy cup – the list can go on and on and on with regards to ABDL punishment for ABDL Toddler time.

So what one speaks out to you? Will it be fun or will it be punishment? OR will it be a mixture of both. Time to play my little ones!

 

February ABDL Honor Roll: The Happy Diaper Lover

Every so often someone comes along that has one of the best personalities you’ve met in a while. This happy little diaper lover was new to me in and around the month of December. Out of the blue he showed up and requested a couple of Diaper lover assignments – the first assignment I gave him involved decorating a variety of diapers – much to my delight he went above and beyond to decorate the diapers.

That lead to inspiring me to create even more entertaining diaper lover assignments. Some were the daily diaper dare challenge and some were very detailed assignments. He has done each and everyone with a pep in his diaper loving step.

Never once has he popped off and never once has he

I wish I could share all of his diaper assignments with the world but ~ things have to be left to the imagination.

In fact, I let him know that he would be February’s ABDL Honor Roll Recipient and had him create a sash out of diapers to wear for when this posted.

For any first-time diaper lover our there, or newer diaper lover or someone that just likes to try new things – you will want to mold yourself after this particular diaper wearer. Have the enthusiasm, have a great attitude and you’ll make any ABDL phone mommy very, VERY happy.

Do you think you’d earn a coveted spot on the ABDL Honor Roll? I only hand out the award once a month to someone of my choosing. This is not a position that can be bought – it is earned. It will depend on you if I feel the desire to offer it to you

Things to know to about the ABDL Honor Roll:

~ Be in good standing and a current abdl trainee of Mistress Lillith

~Face pictures, names or other erotic blackmail type posts are NOT going to be included in ABDL Honor Roll posts. If you are a blackmail client of mine, you can still earn the title but this is not an abdl humiliation post. It is the ABDL Honor Roll – not a humiliation, exposure post. (I do offer abdl exposure as a separate thing 😉 )

~The recipient is notified a month to two months in advance, so if you are new to me don’t expect immediate ‘award’ – don’t EXPECT anything. Lol

Congratulations Happy Diaper Lover, a well deserving ABDL Honor Roll Recipient.

Sissy Baby Girl Dressup

You, my widdle pumpkin dumplin’, want to be all dolled up just like your porcelain doll and baby dolls. Nothing excites you more than getting into a bath and getting cleaned by your favorite abdl mommy mistress.

One of the best things about being a sissy baby girl, is all the fun dress up clothes you get to wear!

The pretty satin pink dresses with a white lace trim, coupled with white patterned stockings and black buckled shoes with the itty bitty heel.

You like to have your hair in teeny tight little curls bunched up in curly pigtails with pretty little barrettes in them.

You love the way the wind picks up your dresses and skirts as you spin and turn in circles.

You like when you bend over and the cheeks on your face get red as that short little dress shows your padded and diapered bottom. Do you wear plastic panties over your diaper? Or do you proudly show off your diaper?

You may like to dress like the sissy baby girl you are, and sometimes you may like to dress as a mini-me of your mommy mistress and have some extra special, naughty fun with mommy mistress and maybe male companions of mommy mistress.

Dressing up and sissy baby tea parties are always so much fun. What will you wear? What will mommy mistress put you in?  Drop a picture in the comments below of you in your favorite outfit or tweet @abmommylillith. I’d LOVE to see more sissy baby girl outfits – if you’d like some inspiration, make sure to get in touch with Mommy Lillith for a personalized session.

ABDL Honor Roll – Sissy Baby Julie

Since April of 2016 Lil’ Miss Julie has come to me for sissy baby hypnosis sessions. I have loved taking her deep into her subconscious where she can be the baby that she has always wanted to be and do the things she has always wanted to do.

Some of her mental barriers have been tougher to crack but we have always found ways around those barriers and now my prissy little sissy baby KNOWS what her dominant abdl mommy expects. We’ve worked on un-potty training, bed wetting and when lil baby Julie does what she is supposed to do…she gets extra special play time to complete the dirty diaper trifecta.

I adore my abbie Julie. She is always eager to please and that is why she gets the spotlight for the month of January. J

I love playing dress up with her too. Don’t you want to be my perfect porcelain princess in your puffy pink pampers?

Look how adorable she is in her satin pink corset and puffy tu-tu.  She is my perfect little dress me up doll. Always in her Sunday best.

I decided to write a little nursery rhyme for my good little sissy baby Julie (to the tune of little miss muffet)

Lil Ms. Julie…made a big doodie…filling her diaper so well. She danced and she twirled like a good baby girl and it made her clitty swell

She knows how to show love and affection for her mommy mistress and I love being able to return that affection.

Time to get back to work on furthering the weakness of your bladder and I do believe some special time is in order for you being such a good girl to make mommy’s abdl honor roll!

 

ABDL is not pedophilia

ABDL is NOT pedophilia.

I think that is why so many shy away from it or why it is one of the most shunned lifestyles in the world of kink. It is one of those fetishes that you either get or you don’t. It is like living a double lifestyle of a double lifestyle. — a double, double life dilemma.

Obviously, one size does not fit all, but for me and for the majority of adult babies and diaper lovers…ABDL Is NOT pedophilia.

I wish I could climb the tallest building and shout it from the roof tops.

When I have a new abbie call in and tell me how happy they are to have somone that gets it…it put’s a smile on my face.

I am a mommy mistress that understands the nature of the abdl lifestyle and fetish.

It’s about total loss of control. It’s about regressing to that place in your mind to a point at which you were most vulnerable. It’s about having to rely on someone else to complete even the simplest tasks and going into a subspace that only allows you to do what your abdl mommy makes you or allows you to do.

ABDL is NOT a one-size-fits all lifestyle either.

AB  is an adult baby. Someone that enjoys giving up the control. Sometimes they are adult sissy babies and like to be dressed up in frilly dresses, some are simply adult babies that want to be babyfied, treated like a baby, talked to like a baby, forced to act like a baby, being humiliated for being a baby rather than the man he should be.

DL is a diaper lover. Someone that just simply enjoys wearing a diaper. Sometimes it’s JUST wearing the diaper, other times it’s using the diaper or completing diaper dares and tasks while wearing them.

While almost all adult babies are also diaper lovers, not all diaper lovers are adult babies.

Sometimes the abdl will have fantasies and release to complete the trifecta of diaper wearing, but sometimes sexual gratification doesn’t even play a significant role in the lifestyle.

Oftentimes, it’s not about sex. It’s about the feeling.

Each of my abbies have their own little qwerks that I simply adore about them.

The next time you hear about a diaper wearer or an adult baby. Ask questions rather than pass judgment. You will either get it or you won’t and that is ok. It is the world we live in and this is a fetish and lifestyle that isn’t grasped by many.

I, for one, grasp it and embrace it. Mommy mistress is here for her abbies!

Because this is not a one size fits all lifestyle and kink I feel the need to add the disclaimer: If you are an abbie and feel pedophilia is a part of the lifestyle…I am not the abdl mommy for you. It really isn’t a part of the base of it…it’s something extra you added in. No judgment, what happens between consenting adults is none of anyone’s business – it’s just not a kink I indulge in. 

Potty Pants Humiliation: Wet Diaper vs Wet Pants

When it comes to diaper humiliation or potty pants humiliation – which is worse…

Walking around with a soaked, sagging diaper OR walking around with pee soaked underwear and jeans?

I would think that walking around a department or grocery store with pee soaked jeans would be vastly more humiliating. There is NO hiding it. There is very LITTLE explaining it. It looks exactly like, what it is. Even people that have accidentally dropped a drink on their pants are embarrassed by the predicament – it always draws attention to itself.

While pee isn’t as smelly as when you have a poopy mess in your pants, it still has a very distinct musty smell that comes within moments of you having your accident.

On the other hand, a soaking, sagging wet diaper – leaves a huge bulge underneath your pants and I know that for most of you, you aren’t used to the bigger bulge. A little small penis humiliation tossed into the mix there. LOL.

Yes, the diaper IS there to protect you from wetting your pants but if you are a pissy pants that has a hard time controlling your bladder – then maybe even your diaper will get filled faster than anticipated.

Have you tried both? If you haven’t, consider this your potty pants assignment. Walk around a store with pee soaked pants. Then repeat with a saggy, soaked diaper. Then comment below with your experience and what you thought what was worse (or more exciting/humiliating)

For potty pants humiliation, contact me for phone, text or a cam to cam abdl session.

Daily Diaper Dare Challange

Do you think you could handing a daily diaper challenge? How long do you think you would last?

I am all about pushing your limits. Encouraging my diaper lovers to sneak step outside of their comfort zones…to embrace the abdl lifestyle. While I would never put all of my diaper lovers into a pre-packaged box, one thing is for certain – they all LOVE diaper dares and diaper wearing challenges.

They love having those limits tested, they love being told when to wear the diaper, how and what they can do while IN the diaper. What to do, where to go, who to see…the works.

Most diaper lovers love the attention, or the thought of getting the attention they seek.

They crave the ability to out themselves or be outted and exposed in creative ways. Then there are some that love the tasks but would like to just complete them privately for one reason or another.

I’ve decided that it would be fun to create a daily diaper dare challenge to test your limits.

To prolong your diaper wearing experience and really get you to embrace it.

In summary of the diaper challenge you decide if you want a 7, 14, or 30 day challenge – after you’ve sent payment and an email to receive the challenges at, I will send a daily email…each morning…with your newest diaper challenge. They will always be different and you’ll have a max of 48 hours to complete the dare for credit.

A dream come true for diaper lovers everywhere. Think you have what it takes? Think you could be dubbed the diaper dare challenge champion?

~ More info on the Daily Diaper Dare Challenge (or click on the page in the menu above)~

Daily Diaper Challenge

Do you think you could handing a daily diaper challenge? How long do you think you would last?

I am all about pushing your limits. Encouraging my diaper lovers to sneak step outside of their comfort zones…to embrace the abdl lifestyle. While I would never put all of my diaper lovers into a pre-packaged box, one thing is for certain – they all LOVE diaper dares and diaper wearing challenges.

They love having those limits tested, they love being told when to wear the diaper, how and what they can do while IN the diaper. What to do, where to go, who to see…the works.

Most diaper lovers love the attention, or the thought of getting the attention they seek.

They crave the ability to out themselves or be outted and exposed in creative ways. Then there are some that love the tasks but would like to just complete them privately for one reason or another.

I’ve decided that it would be fun to create a daily diaper dare challenge to test your limits.

To prolong your diaper wearing experience and really get you to embrace it.

In summary of the diaper challenge you decide if you want a 7, 14, or 30 day challenge – after you’ve sent payment and an email to receive the challenges at, I will send a daily email…each morning…with your newest diaper challenge. They will always be different and you’ll have a max of 48 hours to complete the dare for credit.

A dream come true for diaper lovers everywhere. Think you have what it takes? Think you could be dubbed the diaper dare challenge champion?

~ More info on the Daily Diaper Dare Challenge (or click on the page in the menu above)~

Celebrate your Phone Mommy on Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day is just around the corner, so don’t forget your favorite ABDL PHONE MOMMY ~

Mothers Day ~ phone mommy ~ abdl ~ diaper lover ~ adult baby ~ mistress lillithSome of you are my current diaper lovers and adult babies and sissy babies ~ Just like mommy takes care and nurtures you the way you need (be it age regression, un-potty training, diaper humiliation, sissy baby hypnosis and more), and others simply enjoy reading the updates and abdl blog posts and interaction on twitter.

Take a moment of your time to show your appreciation this abdl phone mommy’s day and send a gift of thanks.

Amazon Wishlist: https://amzn.com/w/2Y0S3V0GR7UK3

Amazon GC emailed to: madamerotic @ gmail.com

If you’ve never used an amazon wishlist, you browse the link above – add selected items to your shopping list, and check out. The address is auto-populated to send and yours is also kept hidden. Amazon Gift Cards are great for anonymity too if that is something you are concerned about.

Make sure to give me heads up or an email so I can thank you in the only manner an ABDL phone mommy knows how — if you decide to keep it a secret, I’ll still post up a thank you.
Your Phone Mommy takes a lot of time with each of her adult babies and diaper lovers, and spends quite a bit of time updating and maintaining a site dedicated to her precious abbies! I was asked by a few for my wishlist, and decided to make it a formal post to make it easy to find…and to remind you to show your appreciation and gratitude.

(Those that take time to thank mommy in a meaningful way, by the end of the week *May 6th* , MAY find themselves in the Exposed Diaper Lover Hall of Fame (Also for Adult Babies), if they so desire 😉 — and more. Although, I will always show my appreciation in a personal way anytime a darling abbie of mine sends me something )

Diaper Humiliation: To Poo or Not to Poo

To poo or not to poo. That was the question that entered my mind the first time doing a diaper humiliation session with Mistress.

I had never worn adult diapers before, but was curious and since I have a bit of a humiliation fetish, I felt as though that would play right into it. I figured she would make me tinkle. What else would I do with a diaper? If you are going to be forced to wear a diaper, then clearly mommy mistress would force you to USE the diaper. I did assume it was just pee-pee.

To be honest, I wasn’t sure if she would ask me to do number 2. I didn’t know if she would ask and I didn’t know if I could go along with it if she DID ask.

That first diaper humiliation session was better than I imagined.

Mommy Lillith was in complete and total control over her newbie diaper lover. She was actually nice to me. Perhaps it was because I was such a newbie and very naïve. There was something sinister in the way she laughed. Was she being nice? Was she poking some fun at my expense? I guess that would be my naïveté poking through.

I struggled to wet my diaper. I was incredibly nervous. She had me on cam, and KNEW whether or not I was doing as told. I was relieved (pardon the pun) to not have to try and FILL the diaper until it sprung a leak. She had mentioned that, that may be in the cards for me one day.

I did get to breathe a sigh of relief that this time she hadn’t asked me…but that relief was soon pulled from me.

The second diaper humiliation session I found myself much more comfortable peeing. Perhaps too comfortable, because Mommy Lillith picked up on my ease and comfort level with having to pee on demand. Then…the demand came.

She made me poop in my diaper

I had to catch my breath. You could tell she seen the shock in my face as she laughed, crossed her arms and demanded I follow through. I thought to myself “could I do it? Should I do it?”

Here I am a grown man. Never been in a diaper before. Yes I am a humiliation addict, but had never experienced diaper humiliation – guess there is a first time for everything. And she certainly seemed to thrive on “popping my diaper pooping cherry”

Mistress Lillith is intoxicating, her demands may seem like a stretch, but she is worth it. She had me hypnotized

Sure enough after some coaxing, I found myself pushing out a big ball of poop.

Was I embarrassed? Hell Yes. Humiliated? Over the top. But, in a weird way, I was also proud for completing her diaper humiliation task. I was happy to please my mistress, and isn’t that what you are supposed to be doing in femdom sessions regardless of your fetish? I think it is.

The next time we had a session, I was instructed to put wife’s panties OVER the top of my diapers. I did have to use them, and I had to hope that it didn’t spill out and stain my wife’s panties. Of course I complied, I may be her diaper wearing humiliation slut, but I’m not stupid.

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*Guest post from a newbie diaper lover of mine. Current clients are welcome to request to become a guest poster, please contact me if you’d like to guest blog*